Love Uplifts
The third aspect of the spirituality of unity is the one that concerns our spiritual life.
Love within us, which makes us another Jesus, not only creates "communion," not only "reaches out," but it also "uplifts." It is the principle and source of our inner life, of our union with God, of our true prayer. In this talk we will focus upon prayer, meditation, and union with God.
Prayer
With regard to prayer, this time too we will refer to writings and talks that we have preserved from past years, in order to look more closely at how the Holy Spirit, through the charism of unity, taught us to pray.
We will not go beyond this to look at the communitarian prayer offered by the liturgy, nor will we speak of prayer in the lives of people with particular vocations, such as priests and religious. We will, rather, examine prayer as required of everyone in general.
Prayer, as we know, is our relationship with God. It is a building block of our very being, of our being human. Indeed, since we are created in the image and likeness of God, we are capable of a direct, personal relationship with God; we are persons who can address God as "you."
That humans have a natural disposition to pray becomes clear when we come to know our brothers and sisters of other religions. We find they have prayer texts which are amazingly beautiful. They bear witness to the secret, but effective, action of God who always urges people to pray
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human beings are truly human IF they pray
And the same applies to us Christians. We are brothers and sisters of Jesus, through grace; and in him we find the model of how to relate to the Father. Jesus, in fact, did not only preach, work miracles, and call the disciples to follow him; he also immersed himself in prayer. Indeed, just as Jesus was always in communion with his Father, always in his presence, so it should be with his followers.
We all know that Christians pray in different ways. It is possible, therefore, to highlight the main and typical ways of praying among those who have been given the charism of unity.
These characteristics clearly emerge if we compare our prayer life with that of Christians, even the ones who knew their Christianity best, at least those in our countries, at the time when the Focolare began.
I remember that in speaking of prayer we said that "one needs to put to work the mind, the will and the heart. Our mind helps us reflect on the words we hear; our will leads us to formulate resolutions on the basis of our reflections; our heart draws us to love what we have promised to do."'
These were certainly excellent suggestions.
continuous prayer
Nonetheless, within the Focolare Movement, prayer immediately became something else. From the early months we emphasized, for instance, the duty to "pray always," as Jesus requested. But how could we pray always? We knew that we couldn't do this by multiplying
1. From an unpublished letter of Silvia Lubich, Bozzana (Italy), 22 July 1939. (Silvia, the author's baptismal name, was changed to Chiara during her time in the Franciscan Third Order.)
the prayers we said.
We could pray always bv being Jesus. Jesus, in fact, prays always. If in performing any action it was not we who lived but Christ living in us, through love, our day would become a continuous praver. And this would be possible if we based our life on love, being a living expression of the word "love," which sums up all the Law and the Prophets.
Another way to "pray always" — which we practiced a little later — was to offer to God during the day one action after the other by saying short expressions of love, such as: "For you Jesus."
Thus all our actions were transformed into sacred actions. We were convinced then, as we are now, that by offering our daily work to God in this way, and per-forming it well, we cooperate with him in the creation of the world;
we are co-creators with him.
And this wav of praving is very much in tune with our times. Today we see the world and the whole universe in evolution, and human beings are reminded of their duty to "subdue the earth" (cf. Gn 1:28).
In addition, when we work for a Work of God and, therefore, for the Church, we participate with Christ in the redemption of the world.
The extensive activity that has always characterized the Focolare could have compromised prayer, making it imperfect and unworthy of being offered to God. This is why we always stressed that we needed to give prayer a privileged place in our lives.
Already during the early times, we wrote, "What importance does it have to be so committed to bringing many people to God when our own souls remain small and imperfect because we do not find a really peaceful time for our own nourishment in prayer?
"What importance does all this have, when the very prayers we have sacred duty to say are said in the midst of
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countless distractions and recited only superficially, hurriedly, or are shortened in length?"2
obstacles to prayer
With regard to the failings we could have in our prayer life, I wrote:
"We have the possibility of living in communion with the All-Powerful God and yet we do it so seldom, in such a hurry, and often reluctantly. At the end of our lives we will regret having given so little time to prayer."3
Another obstacle to prayer could be a state of spiritual aridity. In those who are committed to living the spirituality of unity, however, we note a certain facility in overcoming aridity in prayer. This too is nothing other than an aspect of Jesus Forsaken, one of his faces, and just as we know how to pass from the cross to the resurrection in other circumstances, we ought to do so here.
It seems to us to be very providential that we can, generally, overcome aridity. Since most of us live in the midst of the world, it is important that certain spiritual trials are not drawn out. We have other temptations to conquer.
We feel that one's physical condition is important for prayer, too. In fact, we try not to overtire ourselves prior to these moments so as not to come before God without any strength or with little ability to concentrate, and be forced to give God the least productive moments of our day.
2. Chiara Lubich, On the Holy Journey (Hvde Park, NY: New City Press, 1988), p. 35.
3. Chiara Lubich, Fragments of Wisdom (Mumbai, India: St. Paul Press, 1991), p. 77.
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preparation for prayer
We are also convinced that we should prepare for prayer. The experts say that prayer needs a remote and an immediate preparation.
The remote preparation is to keep our hearts free of any attachment. It seems to me that all the members of the Movement are actively committed to this kind of preparation. In fact, our entire life is constantly focused on loving Jesus crucified and forsaken; and that we lose, we put everything else to one side.
Often we speak of "cutting," of "pruning," and above all of the detachment required in being outside ourselves in an attitude of loving others, in living the "other" and not ourselves. Yes, we hope that this preparation is present in our lives. At least it is what we strive for every day.
The immediate preparation, instead, consists in always starting with a moment of recollection.
We became aware, and are still aware, of the absolute necessity and value of prayer.
"In heaven," I wrote in 1989, "where we hope to go, life will not consist of carrying out apostolic endeavors. It will consist of praising, thanking, and adoring God, the Most Holy Trinity. We must learn now to live as we will then."4
how jesus prayed
But there is a prayer in the Focolare Movement that, with the infinite and divine riches it contains, is all enclosed in one word, just one word, which Jesus said and taught us, and which the Spirit puts on our lips.
Jesus prayed, he prayed to his Father. For him the Pa-
4, Chiara Lubich, On the Holy Journey, pp. 83-84.
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ther was "Abba," which means dad or papa, the one he turned to with infinite trust and boundless love. He prayed to him from within the heart of the Trinity, where he is the Second Divine Person.
Since he came on earth out of love for us, however, it was not enough for him to be the only one in this privileged position of prayer. By dying for us, redeeming us, he made us children of God, as he is, his own brothers and sisters. And through the Holy Spirit he gave us too the possibility of being introduced into the heart of the Trinity, in him, together with him, by means of him, so that we too have the possibility of repeating the same divine invocation: "Abba, Father!'" (Mk 14:36; Rm 8:15). "Dad, my Dad, our Dad," with all that this means: total surrender to his love, certainty in his protection, security, divine consolation, strength, ardor born in the hearts of those who are certain of being loved. . . .
This is Christian prayer, an extraordinary type of prayer. One does not find it anywhere else, nor in other religions. The most someone who believes in a Divine Being does is to implore, venerate and adore, while remaining, so to speak, "outside" of the Divine Being. Here we enter into the very heart of God.
Naturally, we can say "Abba, Father!" with all that this word implies only if the Spirit speaks it in us.
And again, for this to happen, we need — as required by the charism of unity — to be Jesus, nothing but Jesus.
Meditation
The prayer life of a member of the Movement also includes meditation.
It is logical that, if we are called to a spirituality that is both personal and collective, we need to build up along
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with the "exterior castle" (that is, the Focolare Movement, the Church), the "interior castle," that is, the union of our soul with God within us. And this is achieved especially through meditation.
A preparation is necessary for this too. If we do not make even the slightest effort to recollect ourselves and "close the shutters," so to speak, or, in other words "turn off our senses" (close our eyes, for example), so as to seek him, then God cannot let himself be found (the mystics say that God is at the center of our soul) and he cannot spend time with us, flooding us with his presence, giving us all the beautiful things he brings.
We found this writing from 1972:
The Trinity inside of me!
The abyss inside of me!
The vastness inside of me!
The boundless love inside of me!
The Father
Jesus proclaimed to us
inside of me! The Word! The Holy Spirit, who I want to have always to serve the Work of Mary, inside of me! I ask nothing more. I want to dwell in this abyss,
to lose myself in this sun, to live together with Everlasting Life. What then?
Prune away the life outside and live what is inside:
The more I cut off communication
with the outside
(words that are often unnecessary, etc.),
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the more I converse with the Trinity inside of me."5
what should we use for meditation?
We have always been convinced that we should meditate for the most part on Holy Scripture and on writings to do with our spirituality. This is the suggestion given to those who belong to an ecclesial Movement. It is very helpful when we wake up to start the day by meditating, for example, on the passages chosen for the scripture readings of the day. Afterwards, we share more deeply in the Liturgy, and it becomes a much more satisfying and beautiful experience.
If we want to read spiritual texts, biographies and writings of saints or something else, we can do so, and it is an excellent idea, but as spiritual reading.
and how should we meditate?
To meditate we begin by sitting calmly and reading a book, after having put ourselves in the presence of God. If, at some point, we have the impression that he takes the soul and uplifts it, then we must close the book, stay with him, listen to him, answer him, love him, adore him, ask him for graces.
After a while, we may feel that the conversation can be considered complete. Then we open the book again and continue reading. In practice, meditation should become a true conversation with God. We feel listened to, we speak to him, and our whole soul is taken up by him. It is like opening a bottle of perfume whose fragrance permeates the whole day.
5. Chiara Lubich, Diary, 22 May 1972, mLa dottrina spirituals, pp. 192-193.
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Our experience shows that it is not good to meditate with an "ulterior motive," that is, taking notes that may be useful to other people. This can be done later. During meditation it is best to be alone with God. Nor should we go on and on reading, giving in to spiritual greed. This would not be love.
the effects of meditation
If meditation is done well, it often has the following effect. It makes us lose interest in the things of this world, even beautiful things, because it takes us to another reality experienced in the depths of our hearts: God, his love, union with him. We then go back among the people and the things of this world with our intentions all permeated with the supernatural.
Union with God
First of all, we have always been convinced that the charism of unity must bring people to a great union with God, precisely because of the "charism of unity."
This is how something I wrote speaks of our union with God:
"Unity is the word that summarizes our entire spirituality: unity with God, unity with our neighbors. And more specifically, our typical way is unity with our neighbor in order to attain union with God.
"In fact, the Holy Spirit revealed to us a way that is distinctly ours and fully evangelical, a way to unite us to God. Generally speaking we do not seek God first of all in the depths of our hearts where he dwells, or in nature. We look for him and we find him by going through our neighbor, loving our neighbor.
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"Only in this way — by loving our brothers and sisters — are we guaranteed unity with him as well, for then we find him alive and beating in our hearts. In turn, unity with God leads us to go out to our fellow human beings; it helps us to make our love for them something that is not false, nor insufficient, nor superficial, but rather true, full, complete, verified by sacrifice; it includes the readiness to give one's life, and is capable of achieving unity."6
This is a common experience ever since the Focolare was born. After having loved our neighbors during the course of the day, when evening comes we find in our hearts union with God. This union was blessed and greatly blessed especially bv those members of our Movement who live in the midst of the world. This "experiencing" God, his kingdom in us, is the most important antidote to the materialism that reigns everywhere and influences so many.
The following writing is a prayer from many years ago that underscores the truth that we find God by loving our brothers and sisters.
"When unity with our brothers and sisters is complete, when it has flowered anew and more fully from difficulties, then, as night fades into day and tears into light, often, I find you. Lord. Going back into the temple of my soul, I meet you; or as soon as circumstances leave me alone, you invite me, you draw me, gently but firmly, into your divine presence.
"Then you alone rule within me and outside me. . . . The soul is immersed as if in some delicious nectar and the heart seems to have become the chalice that contains it. The soul is all a silent song known only to you: a melody that reaches you because it comes from you and is made of you....
6. Chiara Lubich, Cercando Ie cose di lassu (Rome: Citta Nuova, 1992), p. 156.
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"And . . . strangely — strange to the human way of thinking — we have gone out to our brothers and sisters all day long and, in the evening, we have found the Lord, who has dissolved every trace, every memory of creatures."7
We feel that this way is particularly pleasing to the Lord. We can observe, moreover, that for those who go to God following a way that is more individual in nature, the loving and spontaneous dialogue with him requires a struggle, at times painful one, that takes time; it is a conquest and not always successful.
Instead, for those who journey along a more collective way, like ours, we can affirm that this dialogue is perceived, at least in certain moments, from the beginning. And even children can experience it.
Moreover, it has been our experience that this union with God can reach the point, in time, of being the underpinning of our every action, the foundation of our being.
What happens after we have experienced union with God?
"Union with God," we affirmed on another occasion, "is developed by means of many graces God gives to our souls. Paul, listing the graces given to him, speaks even of revelations. For us, there might have been certain movements, divine impulses to our wills, urging us to renew our conversion over and over again. It can happen at our meetings, through a strong presence of Jesus in our midst. Or there might be certain consolations or illuminations or other gifts."8
Very many of us, certainly, have made an effort to love our neighbor and have overcome trials and received graces. The little plant of our union with God should be present
7. Chiara Lubich, Meditations, pp. 109-110; cf. also Christian Living Today, p. 147.
8. Chiara Lubich, Journey to Heaven, p. 46.
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and have grown in our souls, and each could tell us its story. We could also list its fruits.
All this is a very important and delicate spiritual heritage, which we can perceive only with the senses of our souls. For those living in the midst of the world, this heritage is something out of the ordinary, something miraculous. It is the kingdom of God within us.
What we need to do is to not waste it but guard and look after it, reminding ourselves that it is part of the life we will experience when we will leave this world. . . .
And we can guard and look after it, helping this spiritual heritage to grow by working on four fronts: striving always to be in an attitude of love for our brothers and sisters; overcoming every trial, great or small, through love for Jesus forsaken; reminding ourselves, with gratitude, of the graces God has generously given to us in life; and, finally, since we are talking about our inner life, our relationship with God, we should add fuel to the fire by taking care of our prayer life in a special way: morning and evening prayers, meditation, participation in the eucharist, and so forth.
We should be convinced, as experts in the spiritual life affirm, that God calls everyone to this union.
Furthermore, so as to give the proper place to prayer, in the Work of Mary we always have before us Mary, the Mother of Jesus. How do we imagine Mary, how is she described to us in the scriptures? How has she been depicted in paintings, songs, and statues by artists throughout the ages?
Surely not as an unrecollected person, as someone who is restless, who is impetuous, always rushing, mindful only of external things. No, we think of her as a person who, filled with mystical beauty, discloses an immense treasure hidden in her heart: God.
And so it should be for us, too.
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